use SKBUILD_BUILD_VERBOSE instead of SKBUILD_CMAKE_VERBOSE

[jameslamb]

Proposes switching from SKBUILD_CMAKE_VERBOSE to SKBUILD_BUILD_VERBOSE in wheel-building scripts in rapids-build-utils.

Setting SKBUILD_CMAKE_VERBOSE in the environment causes an unavoidable build-time exception when using scikit-build-core>=0.10.0 and setting minimum-version = "0.10.0" in scikit-build-core.

ERROR: Cannot set cmake.verbose if minimum-version is set to 0.10 or higher

(build link)

See https://scikit-build-core.readthedocs.io/en/latest/configuration.html#verbosity

Changed in version 0.10: cmake.verbose was renamed to build.verbose.

Notes for Reviewers

For more context, see the conversation on that PR and https://github.com/rapidsai/build-planning/issues/58.

[jakirkham]

Looks like the CI failures here are the same ones already seen with scikit-build-core

xref: https://github.com/rapidsai/rmm/pull/1638#issuecomment-2272245102

[jameslamb]

Looks like the CI failures here are the same ones already seen with scikit-build-core

I just restarted CI, now that there's a v0.10.1 of scikit-build-core up on PyPI and conda-forge which RAPIDS 24.08 builds successfully with:

• https://anaconda.org/conda-forge/scikit-build-core
• https://pypi.org/project/scikit-build-core/0.10.1/

I'm going to move this back to draft, let's not merge it yet. If those builds end up succeeding without any changes to any RAPIDS libraries, then that means we could target this at branch-24.10 instead.

Will check back in the morning.

[jakirkham]

/merge

[jameslamb]

/merge