Update cuco git tag to fetch new multiset data structure

[PointKernel]

Description

This PR bumps the cuco version to fetch the new multiset data structure.

Checklist

• [x] I am familiar with the Contributing Guidelines.
• [x] New or existing tests cover these changes.
• [x] The documentation is up to date with these changes.
• [x] The cmake-format.json is up to date with these changes.
• [ ] I have added new files under rapids-cmake/
  • [ ] I have added include guards (include_guard(GLOBAL))
  • [ ] I have added the associated docs/ rst file and update the api.rst

[PointKernel]

Corresponding PRs in each project for build verification:

• [x] https://github.com/rapidsai/cudf/pull/15946
• [x] https://github.com/rapidsai/raft/pull/2372
• [x] https://github.com/rapidsai/cugraph/pull/4512

[PointKernel]

Using a different cuco git tag seems to solve the CI failures.

Let me put this as a draft PR to test the new cuco git tag against relevant RAPIDS projects.

DO NOT MERGE

[PointKernel]

I wanted to fetch the latest SHA of cuco since it includes a bug fix but that git tag failed the CI again. @robertmaynard can you please take a look?

[robertmaynard]

Ci is all passing now.

[PointKernel]

cudf CI passed but some of the raft and cugraph CI tasks are still failing. I will ping here once all CI passes.

[PointKernel]

All repos passed. This is ready to merge.

[bdice]

/merge