Support relay-runtime v13

[morrys]

• [X] update dependencies and introduce relay-compiler v13
• [X] support relay v13
• [X] delete TestCompiler (removed in relay), now i have to use relay rust compiler
• [X] added Relay compilation of test files & updated gitignore
• [X] created ts-relay-plugin & added ts-relay-plugin in astTransformers
  • the plugin is used when running tests with ts-test to transform graphql tags (see babel-plugin-relay)
• [X] migrated ReactRelayQueryRenderer to graphql tag
• [X] migrate all test files
• [X] update pagination-nextjs-srr to relay v13
• [X] create PR for fix relay-runtime typing https://github.com/DefinitelyTyped/DefinitelyTyped/pull/58447
• [x] migrate hooks utils