update bibtex file for fair credit attribuiton

[joshcombes]

Description

Hi all. I just noticed that the author order got switched. I changed it back because while I may have made a lot of contributions Kyle has made very significant contributions. In any-case we very much worked as a team.

Checklist

• [X] The above description motivates these changes.
• [X] There is a unit test that covers these changes.
• [X] The code respects the API separation discussed in .github/CONTRIBUTING.md.
• [X] Relevant references and equations are cited using our standard reference style.
• [X] All new and existing tests pass locally and on Semaphore.
• [X] Parameters have type hints with PEP 484 syntax.
• [X] Functions and classes have useful sphinx-style docstrings.
• [-] (New Feature) The docs and example notebooks have been updated accordingly.
• [-] (Bugfix) The associated issue is referenced above using auto-close keywords.
• [-] The changelog (docs/source/changes.rst) has a description of this change.

[joshcombes]

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