Use quest caching instead of real-time database (and other QOL fixes)

[sammypanda]

Goals/Changes

• fix quest viewer thread blocking and/or communicate searching the filesystem for the quest
• add background quest loading with FS watcher
• fix when a quest is already toggled on reload, on remove, it doesn't remove from the diary
• fix when deleting a quest FX isn't updated
• fix quest diary entries duplicate when a quest is untoggled and retoggled
• fix listening for all player messages in ChatPrompt
• fix listening for all player block placing in SelectLocation
• fix cancelling chat when chat is a denied select method in SelectBlock
• remove redundant closes when using try-with-resources
  • aka improve database performance
• fix concurrency issues with database
  • enables durable quest progress and data. Quest progress persists despite reloads and restarts
• remove quest progress tracking debug console logs
• fixe un-started quests never added to new player quest diaries (regression)
• fix GUI clicks running for other players
• add closing GUI on server reload
• fix stage adding increment
  • after stage_1 is stage_11 instead of stage_2
• add StagePath for quest pointers ✨
  • instead of an action being referred to in the template as action_1 it's more precise, like stage_0.action_1.
• add latest release alert
• add quest resources refunding
• cap quest actions to 12
• cap quest stages to 42
• fix order of stage list in quest stages menu