Add `rules-of-hooks` to eslint config and fix most ESLint warnings

[mshwery]

Overview

This PR cleans up our eslint files and adds rule of hooks to eslint. I fixed a few of the warnings, but not all. Some of the warnings require deep changes in the positioner and virtual table components, which my tests resulted in buggy behavior without a larger refactor.

I manually tested all changed components.

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Documentation

• [x] Updated Typescript types and/or component PropTypes
• [x] Added / modified component docs
• [x] Added / modified Storybook stories

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