fix: update build tools and fix arm64 build for rpi

[reconbot]

Two problems to fix with this one

• our rpi arm64 isn't working possibly because our libc is too new, so we'll target the lts of arm64, worked for level thankful for their investigation
• our arm64 builds were just broken and wouldn't build so we're fixing that with a variable in our binding.gyp for openssl_fips

When this is released it will hopefully fix https://github.com/serialport/node-serialport/issues/2438

[reconbot]

:tada: This PR is included in version 11.0.0 :tada:

The release is available on:

• npm package (@latest dist-tag)
• v11.0.0
• GitHub release

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[s00d]

cool, you're back, thanks!