Allow `QueryOptions` to disable timeout

[seungh0]

Allow QueryOptions to set timeout to 0.

If it is zero, the read timeout will be disabled for this statement

Closes https://github.com/spring-projects/spring-data-cassandra/issues/1494

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[mp911de]

Thank you for your contribution. That's merged, polished, and backported now.