Replace custom query builder with Java driver query builder

[jeffreyscarpenter]

In #1022, the query builder from the stargate/stargate quarkus commons package was copied into this repo to break the dependency on the other repo. Ultimately we don't want to maintain our own query builder and should just use the Java driver's query builder.

[amorton]

updating - we are using the java driver for eveything tables, and all the things we need for collections is in it now. We need to keep this open until we move collections to use the new code paths