bug: `win_options` gets applied for the first opened buffer/window

[NStefan002]

Did you check the docs and existing issues?

• [X] I have read the docs
• [X] I have searched the existing issues

Neovim version (nvim -v)

0.10.0

Operating system/version

Ubuntu 22.04.4 LTS

Describe the bug

When starting the new neovim instance with nvim <dir_name> and instantly using something like <C-o>, <C-i> or harpoon jump the first opened buffer has no signcolumn nor number or relativenumber (basically win_options get applied to the first buffer/window opened after Oil loads).

https://github.com/stevearc/oil.nvim/assets/100767853/b825d6ab-cb3f-4a6c-9cfb-11d207a8c193

In the video, you can see that I press <C-o> right as the Oil is loading.

What is the severity of this bug?

minor (annoyance)

Steps To Reproduce

1. nvim -u repro.lua dir/
2. instantly press <C-o> (if the jumplist is empty just open up a file and press G, that should create one entry in the jumplist and then redo steps 1 and 2)

Expected Behavior

Buffer/window opened using the mentioned methods should have statuscolumn, number, and relativenumber (if they're set in the neovim config directory, of course).

Directory structure

dir/1.lua

Repro

-- save as repro.lua
-- run with nvim -u repro.lua
-- DO NOT change the paths
local root = vim.fn.fnamemodify("./.repro", ":p")

-- set stdpaths to use .repro
for _, name in ipairs({ "config", "data", "state", "runtime", "cache" }) do
  vim.env[("XDG_%s_HOME"):format(name:upper())] = root .. "/" .. name
end

-- bootstrap lazy
local lazypath = root .. "/plugins/lazy.nvim"
if not vim.loop.fs_stat(lazypath) then
  vim.fn.system({
    "git",
    "clone",
    "--filter=blob:none",
    "--single-branch",
    "https://github.com/folke/lazy.nvim.git",
    lazypath,
  })
end
vim.opt.runtimepath:prepend(lazypath)

-- install plugins
local plugins = {
  {
        "stevearc/oil.nvim",
        config = function()
            require("oil").setup({
                win_options = {
                    number = false,
                    relativenumber = false,
                    signcolumn = "yes",
                },
            })
        end,
  },
}
require("lazy").setup(plugins, {
  root = root .. "/plugins",
})

vim.opt.signcolumn = "yes"
vim.opt.number = true
vim.opt.relativenumber = true

Did you check the bug with a clean config?

• [X] I have confirmed that the bug reproduces with nvim -u repro.lua using the repro.lua file above.