fix: better-sqlite3 database arguments

[avallete]

• Change the default parameters for better-sqlite3 so we actually attempt connection rather than creation

I've tough about also waiting to have a valid introspection before exiting the loop, but that was making the logic leak quite a bit and starting to look spaghetti. So I have opted for keeping the separations of concerns as it is.

Fixes S-2093

[linear[bot]]

S-2093 Waiting for connection does not work correctly for sqlite

I ran into an issue when testing for sqlite db, where the place where we wait for a valid connection would stop waiting as soon as we have a `seed.config.ts` (before we have provided a valid connection). Then during introspection, the cli fails and shows an error message about the db not having any tables in it. It might be because better-sqlite3 does not require any args for the client connection to be valid (maybe it creates a new one by default?).