Restart remote builder machine if it's stopped

[billyb2]

Change Summary

What and Why: We autostop remote builders (which I didn't know!). We need to be sure to start the remote builder machine before trying to connect.

How:

Related to:

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Documentation

• [ ] Fresh Produce
• [ ] In superfly/docs, or asked for help from docs team
• [x] n/a

[billyb2]

I gotta revert the old PR first, and make sure to add tests for deploy only tokens in preflight

[billyb2]

didn't mean to close :\

[billyb2]

Closing, continuing this work in #3619