feat(register): support hook options

[Arwid]

This adds the opportunity to transpile files within node_modules.

I'm not that familiar with the swc-node library so feel free to close/reimplement as you see fit but decided to leave this PR here to at least share visibility into what we hacked together for our own needs.

const { register } = require('@swc-node/register/register')
register(/* use defaults */ undefined, {
  ignoreNodeModules: false,
  matcher: (filename) => {
    // Custom file matcher
    return !/node_modules\/(?!@someorg)/.test(filename)
  }
}

Side note: didn't mean to create this PR here, thought it would go to our own fork of swc-node when I ran gh pr create 😆

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