[Index] Convert to hashing to `HashBuilder` with BLAKE3

[bnbarham]

Hashing.h is non-deterministic between runs. Update the index hashing to use xxhash for the unit hash and BLAKE3 for the record hash. Ideally we'd use xxhash for the record hash as well, but there's no easy HashBuilder option for it today.

This also removes the hash caching logic from the record hasher, as it turns out to be slower than just hashing everything for BLAKE3 and greatly simplifies the implementation with its removal.

Numbers for indexing Foundation and Cocoa textual includes on an M2 Pro over 10 runs with 3 warmup are as follows.

Build with full re-index (ie. index removed between each run) -

      Current: 688ms +- 8ms
       BLAKE3: 691ms +- 4ms
BLAKE3 cached: 711ms +- 8ms
   No-op hash: 620ms +- 4ms

Same but with an existing index (which would hash but then not write any output) -

      Current: 396ms +- 4ms
       BLAKE3: 394ms +- 4ms
BLAKE3 cached: 419ms +- 3ms
   No-op hash: 382ms +- 5ms

The no-op hash is a little misleading in the full re-index since it will be writing out fewer records. But the existing index case is interesting, showing that hashing is only a small part of the entire build and index.

Also worth noting that there was some fairly significant run-to-run variance of around 30ms, but the above was a generally typical pattern (ie. current about the same as BLAKE3, which is faster than BLAKE3 cached, and no-op is the fastest). The main take away is that this isn't a noticable performance regression.

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https://github.com/swiftlang/swift/pull/77116

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