PR build tweaks

[cldellow]

This tries to expand the PR builds to catch some of the issues that have cropped up:

• add Makefile builds, including make test
• add Apple Silicon runner (released Jan 30, 2024 - see GitHub blog post)
  • Added @systemed's patch that fixes #664 so the build would pass
  • There's no CMake build on Apple Silicon yet, just a Makefile build. Unlike the Intel Silicon Mac OS image, the ARM image does not have vcpkg pre-installed. I tried to figure out how to install vcpkg myself, but couldn't get it sorted, so I decided it could be a nice-to-have and dealt with in the future.
• fail build if tilemaker command has non-zero exit code
  • Added @Star-42's patch that fixes #661 so the build would pass
• also do a pmtiles build with --store to ensure that mbtiles/pmtiles and lazy/materialized geometries are being smoketested

There's still no verification of the contents of the output files, but even just validating that the command runs with no errors is a start.

[systemed]

Excellent - I hadn't spotted the Apple Silicon runners. Thank you. I might bundle all of these up into a 3.0.1 before long.