make package specificity more restrictive

[busma13]

This PR makes the following changes:

• convert all dependencies to use a tilde(~) instead of a caret(^) in their version number. This will increase the specificity of the version in the yarn.lock so that it can only differ in the patch version, not the minor version.
• bump @terascope/job-components from ^1.5.3 to ~1.6.0
• bump @types/node from ^20.14.9 to ~22.9.0
• bump @terascope/utils from ^1.1.0 to ~1.4.0