fix: Update CI configuration files to use latest version

[bryantbiggs]

Description

• Update GitHub action versions to use latest. This remove warnings related to https://github.blog/changelog/2022-10-11-github-actions-deprecating-save-state-and-set-output-commands/
• Ensure pre-commit config is aligned with latest
• Add lock.yml workflow to automatically lock issues and PRs after 30 days. Theres a lot "Me too" or "I have this issue, when will this get fixed" on really old/stale issues and in order to properly triage, users need to supply their configurations. This workflow is pulled from the AWS provider's repo to force users to fill out a proper issue ticket and keep chatter out of merged PRs or old issues

Motivation and Context

• Patch warnings on CI checks to keep output clean
• Focus on new issues and PRs

Breaking Changes

• No

How Has This Been Tested?

• [ ] I have updated at least one of the examples/* to demonstrate and validate my change(s)
• [ ] I have tested and validated these changes using one or more of the provided examples/* projects
• [x] I have executed pre-commit run -a on my pull request

[antonbabenko]

This PR is included in version 4.1.1 :tada:

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