feat: Add support for ASG `maintenance_options` and LT `instance_requirements`

[bryantbiggs]

Description

• Add support for autoscaling group maintenance_options
• Add support launch template instance_requirements. This works as intended for the launch template, but additional provider updates are needed for this to integrate and work with autoscaling group https://github.com/hashicorp/terraform-provider-aws/issues/21566

Motivation and Context

• Adding support for attribute based instance selection

Breaking Changes

• No

How Has This Been Tested?

• [x] I have updated at least one of the examples/* to demonstrate and validate my change(s)
• [x] I have tested and validated these changes using one or more of the provided examples/* projects
• [x] I have executed pre-commit run -a on my pull request

[antonbabenko]

This PR is included in version 6.4.0 :tada:

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