Fix the problem that statement being oom-killed within DoneAggressiveLocking causing the transaction still in aggressive locking state (#1355)

[MyonKeminta]

This cherrypicks https://github.com/tikv/client-go/pull/1355 to tidb-7.1 branch

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• 2024-11-08 11:12:16.587401582 +0000 UTC m=+9098.778270577: :ballot_box_with_check: agreed by cfzjywxk.
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[cfzjywxk]

@MyonKeminta Please update the client-go dependency in tidb for release-7.1 branch.