Fix Message List rendering

[josethepm]

The useEffect that was updating users was causing problems on each message send because it's supposed to be called the same amount of time each render, not ones per message.

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[josethepm]

Noticed this is a duplicate of the work done in #119

[berkus]

This is a more focused PR, we can merge it faster.