v1.17 release status

[twmb]

• [x] Support Kafka 3.7 (as well as Errors.java)
• [x] Ready to merge: #672
• [x] Ready to merge: #681
• [x] Ready to merge: #697
• [x] Fix #686
• [x] ~Investigate whether the new preview consumer group behavior is worth supporting yet~ NO, it is not advertised in ApiVersions
• [x] #692
• [x] Bump all deps
• [x] Add broker info to Fetch
• [x] Update readme for KIP

~- [ ] Add batch timing to ProduceBatchMetrics?~ need more detail

• [ ] Review #506 -- CUT, to follow (not part of kgo)
• [ ] Review and merge: #691 -- CUT, to follow (not part of kgo)