Modernize dependencies for 310

[rtholmes]

• [x] Modern Restify (^v10)
• [x] LTS Node (^v18)
• [x] Modern nginx (^v1.22)
• [x] Modern Mongo Docker (^v5)
• [x] Modern Mongo TS library (^v4) (this version is independent of mongo docker)
• [x] Current Typescript (^4.9)

Has been tested interactively on a dev instance, but needs to be deployed to check further.

[rtholmes]

This has been completed and verified in production w/ 310. Some minor parts (aka streaming support) is included in #84 .