Add DesiredStateChange Event Filter

[bobh66]

Description of your changes

Added the DesiredStateChanged() Event Filter to avoid unnecessary reconciliations

Fixes: #89

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How has this code been tested

Executed this code in a development cluster running multiple deployments

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