Adjust ingress-nginx deployment to target kind

[tnthornton]

Description of your changes

• previous values didn't work well with kind
• updated values based off of upstream kind template
• adjust readiness check for ingress-nginx-controller deploy

I have:

• [X] Read and followed Upbound's contribution process.
• [X] Run make reviewable to ensure this PR is ready for review.

How has this code been tested

1. Started kind cluster.
2. Deployed spaces to it:

   
   ./_output/bin/darwin_arm64/up space init --token-file=key.json v0.14.0-rc.0.129.g29db6bd1
   WARNING  One or more required prerequisites are not installed:

❌ cert-manager ❌ universal-crossplane ❌ ingress-nginx ❌ provider-kubernetes ❌ provider-helm

Would you like to install them now? [y/N]: Yes

√ [1/5]: Installing cert-manager √ [2/5]: Installing universal-crossplane √ [3/5]: Installing ingress-nginx √ [4/5]: Installing provider-kubernetes √ [5/5]: Installing provider-helm INFO Required prerequisites met! INFO Proceeding with Upbound Spaces installation... √ [1/3]: Creating pull secret upbound-pull-secret √ [2/3]: Initializing Space components √ [3/3]: Starting Space Components 🙌 Your Upbound Space is Ready!

👀 Next Steps 👇

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3. Created a control plane

kubectl get ctp NAME READY AGE ctp1 True 7m5s

4. Attempted to connect to control plane

KUBECONFIG=/tmp/ctp1.yaml kubectl get ns NAME STATUS AGE default Active 2m53s kube-node-lease Active 2m55s kube-public Active 2m55s kube-system Active 2m55s upbound-system Active 2m39s