Revise perfect hash to align with libgrape-lite's pthash

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What do these changes do?

OLD: Modifications of libgrape-lite perfect hash

• remove inline int8_t log2(size_t value) function from hashmap_indexer_impl.h（Not used）
• remove namespace sync_comm and struct CommImpl from hashmap_indexer_impl.h（Not used）
• remove Allocator<T> of std::vector<T, Allocator<T>> inner_ in hashmap_indexer_impl.h（No need）
• remove encode_vec encode_val and decode_val API from ref_vector.h (Not used)
• add struct murmurhasher to single_phf_view.h (reduce dependency)
• add struct external_mem_dumper to single_phf_view.h for dump data to blob (Reduce memcpy)
• remove std::set<size_t> idx in static void build(Iterator keys, uint64_t n, Dumper& dumper, int thread_num) of struct SinglePHFView in single_phf_view.h (No need)
• add static void build(Iterator keys, uint64_t n, pthash::single_phf<murmurhasher, pthash::dictionary_dictionary, true>& phf, int thread_num) API for struct SinglePHFView in single_phf_view.h （Reduce memcpy）
• remove void serialize(std::unique_ptr<IOADAPTOR_T>& writer) void deserialize(std::unique_ptr<IOADAPTOR_T>& reader) and void serialize_to_mem(std::vector<char>& buf) from class StringViewVector in string_view_vector.h (Not used)
• remove void Serialize(const std::string& path) and void Deserialize(const std::string& path) from class ImmPHIdxer in perfect_hash_indexer.h (Not used)
• overwrite finish() API of class PHIdxerViewBuilder in perfect_hash_indexer.h (For vineyard)
• replace std::vector<char> buffer_ with std::shared_ptr<Blob> buffer_ in perfect_hash_indexer.h (For vineyard)
• replace nonstd::string_view with arrow_string_view in all files. (For vineyard)

NEW:

• Use libgrapelite pthash
• Remove pthash / BBHash from vineyard

Related issue number

Fixes #1852

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