Concurrency updates and database logging APIs

[gwynne]

These changes are now available in 4.11.0

This update contains the following changes:

• Two new APIs are available: Application.db(_:logger:) and Request.db(_:logger:). These work exactly the way the respective .db(_:) methods do, except the database's logger will be set to the one provided rather than the default. These APIs will hopefully make it easier to work around the unfortunate fact that Database.logging(to:) and its SQLKit counterpart basically don't work at all.
• The --auto-migrate and --auto-revert commandline flags no longer call EventLoopFuture.wait() when the app is booted in async mode (no more crash risk).
• The migrate command now has nicer console output.
• All tests have been updated to be fully async.

[codecov[bot]]

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