feat(vector): add annotations for deployment, daemonset, statefulset

[enicholson125]

Would it be alright to add annotations for the pod controller of Vector?

My specific use-case is that ArgoCD deployment doesn't work with the rollWorkload option, so I would like to be able to put the stakater/reloader annotation on the deployment to roll Vector when its ConfigMap dependencies are updated.

[enicholson125]

Thanks! I've added the value into the aggregators-all test and pulled in the capitalization fix.

[enicholson125]

Sorry about the test failures - hopefully all working now

[neuronull]

Thanks for the contribution!