[release-21.0] Binlog: Improve ZstdInMemoryDecompressorMaxSize management (#17220)

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Description

This is a backport of #17220

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Codecov Report

All modified and coverable lines are covered by tests :white_check_mark:

Project coverage is 67.53%. Comparing base (38e1f84) to head (f3404b8). Report is 1 commits behind head on release-21.0.

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```diff @@ Coverage Diff @@ ## release-21.0 #17241 +/- ## ================================================ + Coverage 67.49% 67.53% +0.03% ================================================ Files 1570 1570 Lines 251384 251389 +5 ================================================ + Hits 169684 169774 +90 + Misses 81700 81615 -85 ```

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