feat: prompt for instance shutdown when Tale delete=409

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Problem

We now have the option to force deletion of Tale instances from the UI, but UI needs to handle the new force API parameter

Fixes #229

Approach

• Ask user for confirmation - if yes, shutdown running Instance(s) and delete the Tale

NOTE: there are two paths for this - the "Running Tales" section has its own handling that is separate from the rest of the page

How to Test

Prerequisites: at least one Tale running that you own

1. Checkout this branch locally, rebuild the dashboard
2. Login to the WholeTale Dashboard
3. Navigate to the Tale Catalog and find a Tale that you own
4. Start the Tale, if you haven't already
   • You should be navigated to the Run Tale page
5. Go back to the Tale Dashboard and click the X on the Tale to delete it
   • You should see the Delete Tale modal appear
6. Confirm this modal and you should see a ConfirmationModal appear
   • You should see this modal warns you about running instances and the consequences for deleting them
7. After confirming, you should see the Tale and Instances are now deleted