Support `imagePullSecrets` + bug in ingress.yaml

Adding support for imagePullSecrets + cleanup using helpers.tpl.

Details

The helm charts currently do not support imagePullSecrets, which is often needed if the enduser wants to provide a private repository for their images. This PR adds support for that
The PR also cleans up labels and selectorLabels to avoid duplication across files, and defines them in _helpers.tpl instead, cleaning up the chart.
Update service.name in ingress.yaml to point to "wiremock.fullname". This avoids issues where the user uses a name other than wiremock as the helm release name during installation. (If something else is used, currently the ingress resource starts pointing to a non-existent resource since the service created has its name set to fullname

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