wiremock-grpc-extension for test scope only

[jayeshmann]

same as demonstrated https://github.com/wiremock/wiremock-grpc-demos/blob/main/java/build.gradle

keeping it in implementation tree can cause issues with grpc server

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• https://github.com/wiremock/wiremock-grpc-demos/blob/main/java/build.gradle

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