Use ninja generator for cmake package by default

[waruqi]

Is your feature request related to a problem? Please describe.

• https://github.com/xmake-io/xmake/issues/5146
• https://github.com/xmake-io/xmake/issues/5527

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[waruqi]

Add ninja dep to cmake. https://github.com/xmake-io/xmake-repo/pull/5222