FEAT: Raise clearer errors when encountering OOM

[Flying-Tom]

What do these changes do?

FEAT: Raise clearer errors when encountering OOM

Related issue number

Fixes https://github.com/xorbitsai/xorbits/issues/562

Check code requirements

• [x] tests added / passed (if needed)
• [x] Ensure all linting tests pass

[codecov[bot]]

Codecov Report

Merging #621 (12a4c84) into main (350dddc) will decrease coverage by 1.68%. The diff coverage is 100.00%.

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- Coverage   93.63%   91.95%   -1.68%     
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- Hits        73999    72676    -1323     
- Misses       3374     4581    +1207     
- Partials     1657     1775     +118     

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unittests	91.91% <100.00%> (-1.61%)	:arrow_down:

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Files Changed	Coverage Δ
...bits/_mars/services/scheduling/worker/execution.py	98.35% <100.00%> (-0.99%)	:arrow_down:

... and 113 files with indirect coverage changes