BUG: Fix issues when connecting to a real yarn cluster

[ChengjieLi28]

What do these changes do?

Fixes:

• web endpoint always shows 0.0.0.0 when starting xorbits in a real yarn cluster
• when starting xorbits service in yarn cluster, cluster backend is not yarn

Related issue number

Fixes #605

Check code requirements

• [ ] tests added / passed (if needed)
• [ ] Ensure all linting tests pass

[codecov[bot]]

Codecov Report

Merging #647 (c86764e) into main (9e789c6) will decrease coverage by 0.42%. The diff coverage is n/a.

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[ChengjieLi28]

Very welcome @smartguo to help review this PR! And Thanks very much for helping us test this PR on a real large scale yarn cluster!