Deploy project: smarter session updater

[martastain]

In order to speed up project deployment:

• [ ] collect all active sessions
• [ ] update sessions that needs updating using known keys

otherwise every non-manager will try to list all sessions from redis, that is costly. consider caching active sessions during the request as well

[martastain]

Closed as duplicate of https://github.com/ynput/ayon-backend/issues/297