build.bat updates for compatibility with the llvm16 update

add -fno-stack-protector arg to get around missing __stack_chk_guard/__stack_chk_fail symbols when using zig cc
set ZIG_LIB_DIR so installation can be found during zig cc
add -DLLVM_INCLUDE_UTILS=OFF
reorder cmake args in build.bat to match build for easier diffing
support building on x86 (however zig2 runs out of memory)

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