[Improvement]: Optimize the final tarball to keep it within the specified size for 0.7

[klion26]

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What would you like to be improved?

Currently the final tarball is too big to upload for apache release, we need to optimize the final tarball to keep it within the specified size for 0.7

How should we improve?

1. make plugin optional
2. make paimon jar optional

Are you willing to submit PR?

• [X] Yes I am willing to submit a PR!

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[klion26]

this issue has been resolved by #3304