[Feature]: Support to stop/restart the optimizers when stop/restart the ams server

[klion26]

Description

Currently, the optimizers would not be stopped/restarted when the ams server stopped/restarted, but these are some scenarios which the optimizers need to be stopped/restarted such as we make an incompatible upgrade, or there are some critical bugs in the old version.

Use case/motivation

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Describe the solution

1. stop the optimizers when the ams server stopped
2. restart(stop + start with the new version) when restart the ams server

Subtasks

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Related issues

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Are you willing to submit a PR?

• [ ] Yes I am willing to submit a PR!

Code of Conduct

• [X] I agree to follow this project's Code of Conduct

[klion26]

If anyone else is interested, please feel free to contribute. I will contribute to this if I find time(it's a little busy currently).