[stable29] feat: Check upload directory share state

[backportbot[bot]]

Backport of #2658

Warning, This backport's changes differ from the original and might be incomplete ⚠️

Todo

• [x] Review and resolve any conflicts

• [x] Remove all the empty commits

Learn more about backports at https://docs.nextcloud.com/server/stable/go.php?to=developer-backports.

[artonge]

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